3 Spiritual Relationship Hacks to Make You Irresistible
3 Spiritual Relationship Hacks to Make You Irresistible
3 Spiritual Relationship Hacks to Make You Irresistible
Whether you’re in a relationship or you want to be, I bet you wouldn’t mind a little more confidence when it comes to creating sparks and spicy chemistry…
You’ve probably heard a thing or two about how your energy can influence what (and who) you attract and how harnessing the power of your intuition is the key to making sure all your desires, quirks, and values that make you unique, get matched in your relationships.
So what does it really look like to be energetically aligned and tuned into your intuition? As a spiritual relationship coach, I’m all about keeping my strategies as simple and flexible as possible, and since I’ve mastered my Relationship Revamp strategy, I want to help YOU by sharing three relationship hacks I’m focusing on in 2024 both personally and professionally.
Relationships that live at the surface level (spiritual connection/understanding/practice) can only be so fulfilling.
The spiritual approach to relationships is less about the other person, and more about getting your relationship to yourself in order so that your signal (energy) can do the ‘work’ of attracting and evoking what you want. The point of spiritual healing in relationships is saving you time and energy from overthinking and guessing so that your intuition can work for you and give you the right words, timing, and confidence to create sparks without you having to try so hard.
Get an energetic advantage this fall with these three spiritual relationship hacks that’ll help you attract effortlessly and enjoy the intimacy and chemistry you’ve been dreaming about!
1. Put Yourself First
Getting serious about how you treat yourself can teach others how to treat you without you having to tell them. When you can demonstrate that you value yourself, others will unconsciously follow your lead.
From a spiritual perspective, everybody unconsciously knows everything. This means that everybody is reading or translating energy (aka - feeling the vibes).
So, the absolute best thing you can start doing immediately is to treat yourself as if you are ‘God’s Gift’. This will send out a signal that makes you irresistible. Pro tip: you might start by putting yourself first in a seemingly unrelated area of your life… maybe it’s with your fitness or in the workplace. Often when we have been neglecting ourselves in one area, there will be a ‘reflection’ of that elsewhere. If you’ve felt like people just aren’t seeing your value, ask yourself where you aren’t valuing yourself and come up with a strategy to honor yourself starting now.
2. Find the 'MGI'
Training yourself to find the ‘most generous interpretation’ is one of my favorite spiritual hacks that can get you out of a victim mentality and keep your vibration high.
In metaphysical terms, your vibration or signal is a product of your emotions (energy in motion). So when you are feeling angry, outraged, frustrated, insecure, etc - your vibration lowers and will actually cause you to attract more sh*t that matches that energy. No bueno.
So your secret weapon for maintaining a high frequency that makes you a magnet for high quality connections, is your ability to find the most generous interpretation, or basically give the benefit of the doubt. Even if you have to make something up, the idea here is to soothe yourself into the most chill, neutral, non-psychotic/neurotic/dramatic state of mind possible. Which is always the most attractive mode you can be in. People can subconsciously feel when they’re being judged or doubted and they tend to ‘rise’ to whatever expectation we have of them (positive or negative). Practice this in ‘low-risk’ situations like in traffic when someone cuts you off or at the grocery store when they’re out of your favorite cereal – guide yourself to better feeling thoughts that steer you out of complaining or feeling like a victim. Get good at this and you’ll notice that the people and circumstances around you become more and more satisfying.
3. Clear Your Subconscious Clutter
If there’s one mistake I see almost everyone making in the romantic department, it’s failing to offload their baggage before entering into a relationship. When it comes to the subconscious mind or what we often refer to as the ego in the spiritual world, there are two modes it switches between: suspicious and vicious. Translation - if you don’t heal your traumas from the past, they will continue to play out in your present. Particularly in relationships.
This is largely because the subconscious mind groups things into piles of association. So one major pile - relationships. If you haven’t healed your past relationship wounds, your ego/subconscious mind will try to ‘rectify’ them in any situation with ‘structural similarity’ to the original trauma. Again, no bueno.
For example - if you got cheated on in your first serious relationship, your ego/subconscious has now flagged all relationships as dangerous and will be highly suspicious of cheating, even with the perfect guy or gal who only has eyes for you. Another scenario might be something like this - you got ghosted and it left you feeling worthless and unlovable. Now your unconscious mind has harshly integrated worthless into your identity. Vicious.
The unfortunate effect of the way your unconscious mind is functioning in relationships is that you continue to repeat patterns that prove the whole BS storyline to be ‘true’.
So if you want to break the relationship patterns and dynamics that have been hijacking your happily ever after story, you’ve got to pinpoint and uproot the ‘stuck data’ in your subconscious mind. Start to look for examples of where you are the common denominator. Rather than focusing on the other person, start to get really curious about how you’re thinking, feeling, acting, reacting, and interacting. Keep a journal for a few weeks and you’ll start to notice the ways that you are playing a major role in the drama and dissatisfaction. From there, it’s up to you to decide to show up differently. It will take some practice to unlearn your conditioned programming but once you get over the hump, you’ll notice you feel lighter, more attractive, and way more confident to be your most authentic and uninhibited self!
Romantic chemistry doesn’t have to be complicated...
Having a simple, spiritual approach to the way you think, connect, communicate, and feel in your romantic life means you’re spending minimal time worrying/wondering and are, instead, giving your full attention and best energy to all of your interactions which makes you irresistible! Small adjustments to your mindset means way more meaningful connections.
Remember: chemistry thrives in simplicity. You don’t need a complicated game or strategy in order to connect to your romantic interest. A light, easy flowing energy with a strong intuitive presence is the best approach to creating spicy, satisfying romantic relationships.
Energy over your effort. It’s a shortcut and it not only works, it feels fun in the process. Your goal? Make sure your signal is strong by feeling as good as you possibly can, and the rest will truly take care of itself.
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Hey there, I'm Jess Magnan,
I'm a spiritual healing and relationship coach specializing in subconscious reprogramming and helping you to access the wisdom of your Higher Self so you can have healthy, lasting relationships.
